Monday, October 31, 2005

The Sassy Lawyer

http://houseonahill.net/
This site is nominated in the Best of the Blogs' Best Journalistic Blog category. Here is the blurb from BOBs' site (now that's too much alliteration right there):
This journal is one of five blogs from "Sassy," a self-described Filipina attorney, wife and mother. She regularly applies her legal scholarship and incisive logic to demands for fairness and accuracy in the media -- among many other things. She's an unflinching fact checker who reviles propaganda and innuendo masquerading as facts.

Dinner with friends

Start:     Oct 31, '05 6:00p
Location:     TieLing City

No All Saints' Day for Me

This is the first time in many years that I will not be going to the cemetery with my family on All Saints' Day. I've been feeling sad about it for days and needless to say, I can't really do much about it. I can just imagine the preparations going on at home now. Akoh must have taken care of the food they'll be bringing, Papa must have put the tent in the car by now, Sakoh will be arranging and rearranging the flowers, Nenet and the other kids will be so excited they'll have a hard time getting to bed.


I was explaining Halloween to my students today. I also told them about the Filipino tradition of visiting the graves of departed loved ones and how this occasion is as much for the living as it is for the dead. Looking at it from that angle, the dead provide the opportunity for the living to just be with each other, and in an almost ironic way, celebrate life. It is a good time to be with the most important people in one's life amidst the confusion of everyday living.


Well, if I'm sad about not being home for this day, Akoh and the people back home must be feeling worse. It seems like everyone's leaving home. My eldest sister, Janice, left for New York last Saturday. Jona is currently in Bangkok shooting a documentary and won't be back until the 3rd. I wanted to call home tonight just to let Akoh know I haven't forgotten what day it is, but I wasn't able to buy phone cards. Sigh.


But most of all, I miss my Amah, the one person in my life who's probably responsible for my sanity. It's been fifteen years but there is no day in my life that I don't think of her and hope she knows how much I love her. I dedicate this entry to her.

Saturday, October 29, 2005

Friday, October 28, 2005

My Friendster Horoscope


The Bottom Line


You've accomplished great things, but staying grounded and humble is wise.


In Detail


You're grounded, you're focused and you can accomplish anything you set your mind to. How about setting your mind to something a little more unusual, for a bit of a change of pace? When was the last time you talked to your college roommate, or better yet, your date for your senior prom? Maybe it's time to reconnect. If you don't have their contact info, do a bit of research and see what you can find. An email from a long lost friend could make anyone's day.


Hmm, lemme see. I went to the prom with my friends. My "date", if we must call him that, has recently gotten engaged. I hope I get invited to the wedding (hint hint).

Thursday, October 27, 2005

Wednesday, October 26, 2005

Gearing up for Winter




Here are some of the things that I will have to rely on to get me through the cold. Brrrr....

Tuesday, October 25, 2005

Miss International 2005

Time out from all the talk about the UAAP and the college wars. There just might be a part three of that, but for now here's a breather.


While I'm not a huge fan of beauty contests, there is no mistaking the fact that I was quite ecstatic to find out that Ms. Philippines actually won this year's Ms. International. I only found out about it days after the pageant since I'm currently living in a different part of the world. Since then, I was really curious about the question and answer portion. See, when I do watch beauty pageants, I'm always entertained by the more often absurd answers that contestants give. Of course sometimes, there are also the equally absurd questions. Anyway, I finally got hold of "the winning answer" and I must say that I am very impressed. She said it so perfectly that I would have given her a standing ovation for it. Mabuhay! :)


So here it is...


"MABUHAY! Representing the democratic and freedom loving people of the Pearl of the Orient, I am Precious Lara Guigaman, from the beautiful country of THE PHILIPPINES"

One of the difficult questions asked was:

Q: "What do you say to the people of the world who have typecasted Filipinos as nannies?"

Precious Lara: "I take no offence on being typecasted as a nanny. But I do take offence that the educated people of the world have somehow denegrated the true sense and meaning of what a nanny is. Let me tell you what she is. She is someone who gives more than she takes. She is someone you trust to look after the very  people most precious to you - your child, the elderly, yourself. She is the one who has made a living out of caring and loving other people. So to those  who have typecasted us as nannies, thank you. It is a testament to the loving and caring culture of the Filipino people. And for that, I am forever proud and grateful of my roots and culture."

(She received a deafening applause from the audience.)

Movie: Headrush

Start:     Oct 25, '05 7:00p
End:     Oct 25, '05 9:00p
Location:     home

Monday, October 24, 2005

Shopping with Wendy

Start:     Oct 25, '05 8:15a
Location:     LongShou Market

Dinner with friends

Start:     Oct 24, '05 7:00p
Location:     TieLing City

Shopping and dinner with Rain

Start:     Oct 23, '05 5:00p
Location:     Happy Family, TieLing City

Saturday, October 22, 2005

Movie: Braveheart

Start:     Oct 19, '05 10:00a
End:     Oct 19, '05 12:00p
Location:     home

Dinner with friends

Start:     Oct 22, '05 5:00p
Location:     TieLing City

Friday, October 21, 2005

Movie: American Short Shorts

Start:     Oct 18, '05 8:00a
End:     Oct 18, '05 10:00p
Location:     home

Movie: Kung Fu Hustle

Start:     Oct 19, '05 8:00a
End:     Oct 19, '05 10:00a
Location:     home

Dinner with friends

Start:     Oct 19, '05 7:00p
Location:     TieLing City

Movie: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

Start:     Oct 20, '05 8:00p
End:     Oct 20, '05 10:00p
Location:     home

Dinner with friends

Start:     Oct 21, '05 7:00p
Location:     TieLing City

Monday, October 17, 2005

Saturday, October 15, 2005

Friday, October 14, 2005

Dinner with Rain

Start:     Oct 14, '05 7:00p
Location:     TieLing City

Thursday, October 13, 2005

Shopping with Wendy

Start:     Oct 13, '05 9:00a
End:     Oct 13, '05 2:00p
Location:     LongShou Market, Attraction, Happy Family

Dinner with Dale and mom, Linda and mom, Daisy

Start:     Oct 13, '05 5:00p
Location:     Dale's house

Monday, October 10, 2005

Movie: A Lot Like Love

Start:     Sep 16, '05 10:30a
End:     Sep 16, '05 12:00p
Location:     home

Dinner with friends

Start:     Oct 10, '05 7:30p
Location:     TieLing City

Sunday, October 9, 2005

Movie: Chicago

Start:     Oct 9, '05 1:30p
End:     Oct 9, '05 3:00p
Location:     home

Saturday, October 8, 2005

Movie: Yesterday Once More

Start:     Oct 9, '05 10:30a
End:     Oct 9, '05 12:00p
Location:     home

Movie: Ryan

Start:     Oct 8, '05 7:00p
End:     Oct 8, '05 8:15p
Location:     home

Movie: Possession

Start:     Oct 8, '05 5:00p
End:     Oct 8, '05 7:00p
Location:     home

Meeting with Wendy and Gao Shan

Start:     Oct 8, '05 4:00p
End:     Oct 8, '05 4:30p
Location:     home

Dinner with friends

Start:     Oct 8, '05 8:30p
Location:     TieLing City

Dinner with friends

Start:     Oct 5, '05 7:00p

Ryan

Rating:★★★★★
Category:Movies
Genre: Documentary
This movie is alternately funny and depressing. It tells the life of an animator, Ryan Larkin, who showed so much promise as a young man. He was nominated for the Oscars thirty years ago. It shows him now as a homeless forgotten genius begging for spare change.
His is a life that every artist fears. How can one create something that equals his last masterpiece? What happens if his well of creativity runs dry? "Sometimes it's not about the money" but why does it still matter anyway?
It's been a long time since I last felt totally moved by a movie. It's so good it will make you want to weep.

Friday, October 7, 2005

Shopping with Blaze, Doris and Rain

Start:     Oct 3, '05 11:00a
Location:     ZhengZhou

Drinking with friends

Start:     Oct 3, '05 9:00p
Location:     Be There or Be Square, ZhengZhou

Amusement Park

Start:     Oct 3, '05 7:00p
Location:     ZhengZhou

Shopping with Blaze, Doris and Rain

Start:     Oct 1, '05 11:00a
Location:     ZhengZhou

Shopping with Blaze and Doris

Start:     Oct 2, '05 11:00a
Location:     ZhengZhou

Dinner with friends

Start:     Sep 30, '05 7:00p
Location:     Pizza Company, ZhengZhou
Blaze, Doris, Joel, Amy, Rain

Leave for TieLing

Start:     Oct 4, '05 3:00p
Location:     Bus Station

Massage

Start:     Oct 1, '05 9:00p
Location:     ZhengZhou

ZhengZhou




I went to ZhengZhou with Rain for a few days. We weren't able to go anywhere fancy but I managed to take some pictures while on the bus on our way home. These are attempts to capture the ordinary ZhengZhou life.