I'm sure I mentioned before that Rain's back. Before he left, his deal with the headmaster was he'd pay Rain his plane fare after he has returned to TieLing. This left Rain broke the whole time he was in Canada and even after he came back. A few days after being back, he had a meeting with the headmaster. I and Wendy (a different Wendy) went to the school with him and waited in one of the classrooms while they talked in the office. We passed the time studying Chinese. No, I was studying, she was teaching me. I was practising writing the characters for the different seasons, different parts of the body, etc., when we heard raised voices and thudding sounds from the other room. We went out of our room and listened intently. It got quiet again so we went back in. A few more minutes, we heard louder thudding sounds. I was worried about what Rain could do to the headmaster, the man being so tiny and all. We were in the hallway when Rain stormed out of the room, followed (to my relief, he was still alive and walking) by the headmaster.
Rain: (seething with rage) Let's go.
HM: No.
JC: What's happening? What happened?
Rain: (looking at me with intense hatred, the intense hatred was not directed at me of course) Do not trust that man. Let's go.
HM: No. Joni. No.
You must remember he has a limited English vocabulary. I interpreted this as: Joni, don't go yet. I want to talk to you, please. Or it could also be: No Joni, please don't go! I can't live my life without you! No! Or: No Joni. No life. (Maybe he doesn't know how to say life.)
I'm going for the first interpretation.
JC: (looking at Rain) Five minutes.
R: Ok.
Wendy must be around somewhere. I think she might be gathering her things from the other room. I don't really remember.
So I went inside HM's office and we talked. We tried to. Basically, he tried to explain to me what happened, from his point of view. I remember him complaining about Rain taking the contract to Canada, that Rain did not leave the key to his apartment, how dirty Rain's apartment was. I know, I don't get it either. Sometimes I feel the Chinese have a weird sense of logic. The point to this talk is to try to persuade me not to be friends with Rain anymore. I knew it would lead to that.
Flashback: American teachers JP and Zach used to work for the school. They left due to misunderstandings with HM. Or they were just plain fed up with him. The only time I met them was months ago when they (and a Canadian of Chinese descent. I had to say that because he was the one who found a locksmith to pick the lock and because his Chinese is sooo good!) went to my house, which used to be JP's house, to get JP's things which were locked up in a room. HM locked them up out of spite. I knew about this even before I met them which was why I let them in when they knocked on my door. I also immediately called Rain because he knew these people and I didn't. HM was out of town that night. To make an already long story short, they got JP's stuff and left. A few days after, HM found out about it. I told Wendy (the one from the school) the next day and feigned ignorance. He used to live there, he came to get his things. What's the big deal? HM also talked to me about this, saying that JP and Zach were enemies of the school and I should not associate with them. They live in a different city, for crying out loud. I said, ok. Fred, a Chinese who used to teach English here, is also an enemy of the school now that he has left and is working at another school.
So that was how I knew it was going to be one of those talks. He started by saying that Rain is a nice boy (yes, he said boy). But now that he's not with the school anymore, I should stop being friends with him. Did I tell you it's hard to follow their logic sometimes? Maybe it's just my headmaster. I apologize to all the other rational Chinese people of the world. Of course I said no. With the patience developed after years of explaining things to Nenet, Ube and Charly, I explained very slowly and in as clear a manner as I could that I can and will be friends with anyone I like, because, maybe it wasn't obvious enough, it is my life. He tried a different tack. His favorite, in fact. That of the school being a family and he's like the father. I've heard this so many times before. Again with all the patience I could muster, I told him that yes, Waiyan could be my family but I also have a life outside of my family. This conversation actually took a long time and Rain had since stuck his head in the room to tell me that he was going home and I just follow after. It finally ended, I was actually afraid it never would, when he gave up and said that he would ask Wendy or Jasmine (both my friends and are teachers in the school) to talk to me. I said, fine.
Rain's version was HM did not want to give him the money and said that what he meant was he would give the money after he finished the new contract. Ohgod, it was a miracle HM was still able to walk out of that room. Knowing Rain, he probably told HM to go fuck himself. When he tried to leave, HM blocked the door and asked for the contract. There were three copies of the contract, one of which had both their signatures. Rain opened his folder and started looking. HM grabbed the papers as soon as he saw them and started tearing them up. Rain, shocked, grabbed the papers back. At one point they were both holding them and HM started twisting the unfortunate papers, resulting to the damage of Rain's fingernail. I saw it, eww. Rain, being bigger, managed to get the remaining untorn ones, picked up the torn sheets, pushed HM aside and stormed out the door. The one with the signatures are still with Rain, untorn. He is now plotting on HM's eventual destruction.
Jasmine and/or Wendy must have talked some sense into HM because the next time we had a "talk" (with both Jasmine and Wendy there) he just said that although I'm very good friends with Rain and he can't do anything about that, I must not reveal the school's secrets to him. I said, ok. Sigh. And I just want to eat.
Yes, I finally got my plane fare reimbursed. Yes, I think I'm moving to Beijing after my contract expires. Whew! Crazy!
my god! that is way better than any soap opera plot!
ReplyDeleteHahaha! Rain always tells me I should write about his life because it's like a soap opera.
ReplyDeleteJoni, seriously, find a new job ASAP, pack quietly in the night and LEAVE that fucking place. They are going to screw you over sooner or later, so just get out while the getting is good. Rain can take his case to the Chinese Government's Board of Foreign Expert's Affairs and get his money from the school pretty easily as he retained his contracts. That's why the HM tried to tear them up.
ReplyDeleteWhat happened to our idea of forming a group here for "enemies of the schools?" Still down?
Seriously? Now you're scaring me. Oh god, I'm getting really scared now. But I haven't thought about this thoroughly enough. Where do I go? What do I do? I'm not THAT impulsive. Wait, breathe. I don't think I should just go. Isn't that unethical or something? Yes, I know HM's not exactly the most ethical person in the world but I'm really uncomfortable with the idea of just packing my things and leaving. Oh gaaaad in heaveeeeen, what have I gotten myself into now?
ReplyDeleteUm, do you know how to start a new group? Because I don't. Hehe.
I can start the group; no problem. If you want to start looking for a new job it's easy. Dave's ESL Cafe is a good place to start. There are some message boards there where people "review" some of the employment agencies.
ReplyDeleteRemember that self-preservation knows no ethic. You don't have to leave tomorrow, but better sooner than later.
Update???
ReplyDeleteUpdate on? What I'm going to do? Um, I was kinda hoping you'd forget. Hehe. Um, I think what I'm going to do is try my best to finish the contract. I have a problem about breaking rules. Seriously, in my psychological test it is revealed that I'm guilt-prone. Talk about having gone through mental conditioning... I promise I will not put up with shit though. Once they try to cheat me again, I'll be out of here faster than you can say "No. Joni. No." :p
ReplyDeletehahaha! oops, sorry. hahaha! :p
ReplyDeleteNot funny! Hmp!
ReplyDeleteSigh...how much money do you think you are going to lose before your guilty conscience gives way? I lost about 2000 RMB and spent a large chunk of my foreign currency just surviving before realizing I had to make the break. Now I love life....did I tell you that my school paid me for the entire vacation? And my HongKong trip? Just bragging :P
ReplyDeletehahaha! maybe nuni can teach at your school! hehe.
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately, my school is too small or I would have already convinced them to hire her!
ReplyDeletetell them to stop paying for your vacation time and use the money for her salary instead. :p seriously, i'm beginning to think you might be right about her needing to transfer to another school. ask her to tell you about what happened recently. that hm is a cunning, sneaky creep.
ReplyDeleteSomething else happened?!? Say it isn't so! What a prick the HM is...typical prick.
ReplyDeleteI can't think. I can't think. I'm thinking too much. My head is going to burst. Gaaaad!
ReplyDeletewhat does rain think? maybe you could transfer to where he's teaching at now.
ReplyDeleteJason, I'll try to explain what HM is trying to pull this time. Every class is an hour and a half, with a 10-minute break after the first 40 minutes. Now what he wants to happen is he's making each class 40 minutes each, but I still teach the same students after 10 minutes, except that now, it'll be considered not as the continuation of the earlier class but a second class. Basically, it's the same shit. But he wants to make it seem different because he doesn't want to pay for the 10-minute breaks in between the classes. Of course those 10 minutes would eventually add up. I already told Wendy, "No no no no no no." I am still waiting for the reply. Meantime, I'm wondering if I can fit in all the things that I've accumulated for the past six months in my suitcases. And I have a question, since the school invited me to come to China and I got my Z visa because of it, does HM have the power to cancel my visa? Just wondering.
ReplyDeleteNuna, there are several things that I still have to consider. Gaaad, I am so tired of thinking...
i doubt it. i still remember having to sit on each and every one of them before we could zip them up. :o
ReplyDeleteNo Nuna. Not true. Our problem was the weight.
ReplyDeleteWow this is deja vu! This was one of the stunts the first company that I worked for pulled!
ReplyDeleteThe first two months that they paid me, they paid me for all the 10 minute breaks, then the last month (when I had finally accumulated a respectable amount of hours) said that they never agreed to pay for those 10 minute breaks and refused to pay! I went ape-shit on them! I made one of the office workers cry at one point. This was the point where I broke with them, though not before getting my pay (with the 10 minutes included).
But isn't that beside the point? Aren't you to be paid a monthly salary regardless of this? If they are trying to pay you hourly (and I already think you are working too many hours for too little) and you are supposed to be paid a monthly wage, then they are in violation of the contract. If they are in violation in any way and won't fix the problem then the contract is void. Period.
You should find a new school to work at first. You should be able to find something within a week with your credentials. Explain the situation to the new school and there won't be any problem for them in getting your visa and resident permit fixed up.
If you can't find any real breach of contract with the school or think it will be too much trouble to go that route, just do what I did. Every contract has a clause that allows you to go home if you have a "family situation." I told them my father was sick and I was going back to the US. I went to work at my new school, then got a new visa in Hong Kong through the new school once the old one expired. Easy as that.
I'm getting a fixed monthly salary. However, beyond the 20 hours, I should get paid 80 RMB/hr for overtime. When before I should already have worked 21 hours, in the new rule, that's only 18.something hours.
ReplyDeleteI'm looking at my contract now and it doesn't say anything about a "family situation," although I might use that excuse when I get really desperate which is soon. I remember I signed another contract when I first came here. They used that to get my foreign expert's certificate. I have repeatedly asked them for a copy of that but somehow, they have repeatedly managed to forget. I will demand a copy of that today. I believe that one will solve a lot of things.
Wow, that's easy! The contract says 20 hours? Simply refuse to work beyond twenty hours then if they won't pay you that agreed upon amount... actually, now that they are short a teacher with Rain gone, you could easily demand 100 RMB per hour of overtime (that would make up the difference for your ten minutes and then some!), telling them that you could do private tutoring with your free time for that amount (which you can easily).
ReplyDeleteJoni: "HM, why would I teach a full class for only 80 RMB/hour when I can private tutor one student for 100 RMB/hour. Tell you what, I like you guys and don't want to put you in a bind, so if you just give me the 100 RMB/hour for the extra hours, well, then I'll help you out and do it.
HM: "You are an enemy of the school!" Tears up contract and looks superior
Joni: "Thanks for nullifying that shitty contract with your shitty school. I have a new job awaiting me in (insert random warm southern Chinese city here - or Beijing; Beijing is kick ass too!). Don't worry I am packed already and will leave the key on the table in the apartment. Fuck you -I hope you die shitting (Learning this last line in Chinese will have better impact I am sure).
hahaha! this is too funny! what's funnier is that, given the wacky characters on that side of the world, i can actually see it happening in real life!
ReplyDeleteNuna, it might surprise you to realize that we occupy the same side of the world. We're even on the same time zone! But then again I can see how we're also worlds apart based on our reactions. See, I failed to see the humor in that. Or maybe I'm beginning to lose my sense of humor. I don't know, I'm too tired. I don't want to think about why I can't laugh now. To bed. To bed... Updates tomorrow, maybe.
ReplyDeleteThat side of the world!!! Too funny Jona - geography was sleepy time at school eh?
ReplyDeleteNow that you mentioned it, geography is definitely not one of our best skills. We're lousy at maps. Instructions should be limited to: go left/right/straight/turn around. Never ever say east/west/north/south. Plain useless. Both Jona and I are hopeless when it comes to directions.
ReplyDeletetrue, true. we get lost all the time we're like characters in a sitcom. anyway, you got what i meant right? hehe.
ReplyDeleteMore past life coincidences. I can live somewhere for five years or more and still get lost driving from work to my house!!!
ReplyDeleteMore past life coincidences. I can live somewhere for five years or more and still get lost driving from work to my house!!!
ReplyDeletei memorize one route and stick to it like glue, no matter what.
ReplyDeletehi jons =) after reading this, i remembered the "tsiam" that we had before u left...naalala mu pa?
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