Saturday, January 31, 2009

25 Random Things

I actually got tagged on Facebook. But since I spent all that time coming up with 25 random things about me, I might as well post them here too. :p

Rules: Once you've been tagged, you are supposed to write a note with 25 random things, facts, habits, or goals about you. At the end, choose 25 people to be tagged. You have to tag the person who tagged you. If I tagged you, it's because I want to know more about you.

To do this, go to “notes” under tabs on your profile page, paste these instructions in the body of the note, type your 25 random things, tag 25 people (in the right hand corner of the app) then click publish.

1. I will do everything I can to finish every bit of morsel of food on my plate no matter how full I am. Wasted food weighs heavy on my conscience.

2. I eat a lot. Rice, especially. And I'm very thankful that it doesn't show.

3. I need to take iron (ferrous sulfate) in the morning otherwise I will be on the verge of falling asleep the rest of the day.

4. I have never flown a kite in my whole life.

5. I have a pack of baby wipes in my bag that I carry around almost everywhere. One time I suddenly felt the need to go to the bathroom but could not find any establishment in the vicinity that sells tissues. I had to substitute with the baby wipes. I love them now.

6. I love gel pens. I have them in different colors: dark brown, dark blue, green, purple, metallic blue, metallic green, etc. The funny thing is I only use them on my planner.

7. I was an emcee in two speed dating events in the past. Tomorrow, I will be one of the daters. I realize now how that is so much scarier.

8. It is highly unlikely that I will date a guy shorter than me. I like my men tall.

9. I had been rumored to be a lesbian at least twice. I think it is mildly amusing. And perhaps the rumors will make me seem more interesting than I really am.

10. I never make the first move because I'm chickenshit.

11. I love moisturizers. I like keeping my skin well-hydrated.

12. I belatedly discovered that I like perfumes, too. But not as much as moisturizers.

13. I don't use deodorants. I am under the impression that I don't need them. Please tell me if I am mistaken.

14. I never learned how to drive and I seriously think I have underdeveloped motor skills. I cannot coordinate hand and leg movements. I can't dance. I can't play any sports. And I stumble on my own feet.

15. I have a very bad sense of direction. Maybe I have an underdeveloped brain, period.

16. I was made to memorize the multiplication table in (Fukien) Chinese before I started kindergarten. So at least some part of my brain has hopefully developed fine. I do have a good memory. And it comes out when I least expect it.

17. Once I decide something is worth learning and is not beyond the limited capabilities of my brain (I wouldn't, for example, attempt to learn the tango), I can get obsessively disciplined about it. The current passion is relearning Mandarin.

18. Aside from Facebook, I am also on Multiply and Friendster. I have been deleting my accounts on other social networking sites. Sometimes I forget I even have accounts on them.

19. I am always thrilled to be told by somebody that s/he reads my blog. Blogging is one of the things that keep my sanity. Or some semblance of it.

20. Email and IM are my preferred means of communication. Other than face-to-face for close friends. I only text when I have to. But then again maybe that's because I have not had a serious relationship in a long time. I would probably appreciate texting more if there were messages to look forward to reading. And replying.

21. There are times when I would worry that I'd be alone forever. And then I'd realize it's not the worst thing in the world.

22. My laughter sounds weird. I have been told this many times. I'm not sure how laughters are supposed to sound.

23. I do not give people many chances. Once I have labeled a person unworthy of my time (and this may most probably be based on some past proof of betrayal/stupidity/meanness), I very rarely change my mind. People who have earned my trust and respect though can expect a lifetime of loyalty. It's just that way in my world.

24. Cherries are my favorite fruit. And I hate how they're so expensive here.

25. Whenever I think about my life in general, I am almost always caught by surprise at the intensity of my gratitude. I am well aware of how blessed I am despite my propensity to whine about my petty concerns. Maybe age has something to do with it. And even more delightfully surprising is the fact that I genuinely like the person that I have become. That is coming a long way from the kid who used to wish she had never been born.

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Ron is back!




...and the Constancia kids all trooped over to Zaifu at Rockwell so he could treat us to dinner.

Saturday, January 10, 2009

Annual Post-New Year's Celebration 2009




Something to look forward to when the holiday season approaches is our annual get-together with college friends that happens at around the first week of the year. So we would meet erratically all throughout the year but make it a point to show up, in whatever state we are in, every year to listen to John's lecture on life and love.

Because that's how it is.

Friday, January 9, 2009

Hello 2009!

New Year's, I think, is my favorite holiday. It is logically irrelevant and should have been an uneventful day had people of long ago not have thought of dividing days and weeks, months and years, the way we divide them now; but because they had, each year we are given an imaginary excuse to be motivated to turn over a much better leaf, if not entirely new. Or maybe this is a carry-over of my childhood days when New Year's Eve was the most awaited time of the year. It was when different branches of the family would all gather in our house to break bread together, exchange presents, and (horror of horrors!) be entertained by us kids' prepared program of Christmas carols (which, mind you, we would practice for weeks on end--complete with the voice-blending). In contrast, Christmas was virtually a non-event for us. Go figure.

Perhaps it was the long holiday break that welcomed this year that made me feel that it was one of the best New Year "celebrations," if you could even call it that, I'd had in a long time. Because it wasn't really just the celebration, but the collective experience of my holiday break, that made it so good. If we must remember, I was in a very unhappy state just before the break. Maybe at that point there was no way to go but up, eh?

The events were so simple and ordinary that a part of me was debating on whether or not to even blog about it. But then again in the final analysis, it is the simple and ordinary that make up most of our lived experience. So you know which side of the debate finally won.

So after the usual Christmas parties and get-together with different groups of friends (which I always enjoy because everyone is in a festive mood), I spent half of the holiday break at home in Valenzuela. I planned to spend most of my time reading and writing and reviewing Chinese. Of course the evil Internet ruined most of those plans. I am, however, more than pleased with the bit of work I was able to put in for my novel. So happy happy there! Slooowly progressing, yes. We'll get there someday... Soon, I hope.

And I cooked tinola for lunch one day. That was good, too!

And fun times with Baby Iel and Triz, delighting me with their rapidly expanding vocabulary each time I come home. Oh the hilarious things that come out of those mouths!

And I had a hair treatment. If you're as stingy as I am, that is something to feel very good about.

And I got to spend more time with people I care about.

And then just a week after New Year's Day comes my birthday. I'm not exactly sure why (my brain must have blocked out the real reasons) but when I was younger, I used to dread my birthdays. I'm sure the reason for dreading it now at my age is so much simpler to understand but somehow, I actually enjoy my birthdays more as I get older.

Similar to the New Year (and possibly because it is so close to the New Year), my birthday gives me the excuse to reflect on what I've accomplished in a year, and to look forward to future possibilities as I turn hypothetically wiser. And I love possibilities. I think it's the one singular reason why I get out of bed each morning. Okay, maybe just one of the biggest reasons.

Almost every year I would check out my astrological predictions online, just to have a heads-up, you know. Yeah, I know you know. And to be given reassurance that there is, after all, something to look forward to. I'd be very careful to believe only the positive predictions because well, those are what I want to believe. This year I didn't (although my friend did and told me I'll be lucky in love and career this year). This year I am declaring 2009 to be the happy, blessed, and bountiful year that it will be. (And yes, I am also ignoring all those financial analysts saying the worst impact of the economic crisis will be felt in 2009. Hmp, they're no better than those astrologers in my book. Err, ok maybe just a little more believeable. Still!)

So it's been good. 2009 has been good to me so far. And to you, too, I hope. It's going to be a great year! Trust me on this.

And I leave you now with the words of old friend Emily Dickinson:

I dwell in Possibility--
A fairer House than Prose--
More numerous of Windows--
Superior--for Doors-

Of Chambers as the Cedars--
Impregnable of Eye--
And for an Everlasting Roof
The Gambrels of the Sky--

Of Visitors--the fairest--
For Occupation--This--
The spreading wide my narrow Hands
To gather Paradise--


Thursday, January 8, 2009

My Birthday 2009




I turned 29!

And I have vowed to make the year the best evah!! :D

Monday, January 5, 2009